Fortunately, most women know that majority of the male species would give an arm and a leg just to be with two women at once. Men, on the other hand, have difficulty trying to understand why any woman would want to be with two men at once.

Even if they can get past this, they also must get over the fear of being so close to another naked man. Women must be especially cautious when initiating this kind of threesome conversation, because men tend to be more insecure than they admit to. The best way to approach your man might be to tell him that you are merely an extremely sexual woman, and that you have many sexual fantasies- these things alone should turn him on.

Most importantly, however, is to stress that you have no desire to fulfill any of your fantasies without him. This should help to boost his ego, and hopefully help him to see that your suggestion of a threesome is non-threatening.

Choosing a Friend vs. a stranger?
There are pros and cons to both. On the one hand, you would probably feel more comfortable choosing someone you know. On the other hand, there is the possibility of ruining that friendship should complications or jealousy arise. Even if the threesome does turn out to be successful, the future of your friendship may be compromised.

finding partners

Should you have a threesome with the same person more than once? This really depends on the couple being secure enough in their relationship and the third party being non-threatening in any way, since the third person can become a regular fixture in the relationship. The last thing you want is for your partner to get too attached to your “guest”, especially if it is a friend of yours.

You really need to see where the first experience takes you, and then all three people must be honest about what they want. If everyone wants the same thing, and the experience was great (there was no jealousy involved), then go for it again (and again, and again)!

There are still a few swing clubs out there- they are a great source to find others who are similarly looking to experiment sexually. To locate a swinger’s club, just go to a search engine (i.e. Google) and type in “swing club”. You will be able to find the sex clubs once you get past the sites for “swing dancing”.

Another place to search for a third is the Personals on the Internet. The Internet Personals allow you to do specific searches for whatever you are looking for. This method also gives you the advantage of swapping photos online before you meet, as well as allowing you to get to know someone a little through e-mail or telephone chats. DO NOT just go to your regular watering hole and walk up to a stranger. You will most likely just embarrass yourself, and even possible get slapped!

This obvious answer is, anywhere! More seriously, however, is wherever is most convenient for everyone involved. It is most common for the couple to invite the third party into their home. However, it is also possible to travel to the third person’s home to be entertained, especially if the couple have children. A hotel is the least common place for a threesome to take place, unless you’re coming from a swing club. In that case, it can be an exciting venue for a threesome, a foursome, or more.

Conclusion

Steer away from participating in a threesome with someone you are in love with, especially if you know that either of you can become jealous easily. Instead, explore some new and exciting things that you can do together in the bedroom, including sex talk about threesomes.

If you are in a more casual relationship and/or planning a threesome for the right reasons, don’t worry about what to as it will come naturally! Most times (and the best of times) are not planned, they just happen.

One option during a threesome is to select one participant to be the star, and then let that person lay back while the other two DEVOUR him or her. This can also be a very special treat for a BIRTHDAY present! It’s nice to take turns receiving and giving, so that everyone gets a turn to feel like a prince or a princess.